<p id=”par-1_52″><a href=”https://cheatsheet.com/tag/sean-diddy-combs”>Sean “Diddy” Combs’</a> parties have come under scrutiny for the “freak offs” that allegedly occurred during them. These were events full of drugs and sex that could last for days. According to a party planner who once worked with Diddy, the parties <a href=”http://cheatsheet.com/tag/sean-diddy-combs”>were debaucherous affairs</a>. They recalled what made them this way.</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-sean-diddy-combs-parties-were-full-of-debauchery”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ parties were full of ‘debauchery’</h2>
<p id=”par-2_16″>Ahead of his parties, Diddy <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-freak-parties-mirrors-looked.html/”>reportedly installed mirrors</a> on the walls and ceilings of his home.</p>
<p id=”par-3_39″>“Everywhere you looked, you’d see yourself reflected again and again,” the planner told the <a target=”_blank” href=”https://nypost.com/2024/11/08/us-news/diddy-redecorated-room-with-hundreds-of-mirrors-for-500k-freak-off/” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>New York Post</a>. “You can imagine what it would look like when people are naked and having sex on the floor, on the couches, wherever.”</p>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-1″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Sean-Diddy-Combs-6.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs performing on stage with his arms outstretched. He’s wearing a fringe diamond jacket.” class=”wp-image-3725953″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs | Kevin Winter/Getty Images for iHeartRadio</figcaption></figure>
<p id=”par-4_18″>The parties were over-the-top and could cost up to $500,000. Diddy showed little concern about the price tag.</p>
<p id=”par-5_25″>“Great food, expensive alcohol, dancers, acrobats, models,” they said. “Sometimes we had live animals, sometimes different performers. It all added up, but he didn’t care.”</p>
<p id=”par-6_16″>The planner added that Diddy was looking to cultivate a very specific atmosphere at these events.</p>
<p id=”par-7_26″>“It was definitely a vibe he wanted to put out there, that everywhere you looked there would be sex happening,” they said. “It was wall-to-wall debauchery.”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-sean-diddy-combs-once-shared-how-he-set-up-his-house-for-his-parties”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs once shared how he set up his house for his parties</h2>
<p id=”par-8_33″>Diddy reportedly did more than just install mirrors in preparation for his parties. In a 2002 interview with Conan O’Brien, Diddy admitted that he wanted it <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/diddy-wanted-locks-doors-air-conditioning-kinky-parties.html/”>to keep doors locked</a> at his parties.</p>
<p id=”par-9_100″>“This is what you need to do,” Diddy said, per <a target=”_blank” href=”https://www.vibe.com/news/entertainment/diddy-interview-party-locking-doors-early-2000s-resurfaces-1234925772/” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>Vibe Magazine</a>. “Women. Beautiful women, of course. Beautiful men for the ladies, of course … You need to give the ladies what they need, too. Take care of your women. You can’t force the situation. We need alcohols. You need some water. I don’t know if guys have noticed this, but a lot of ladies drink water at parties. So if you don’t have what they need, they gon’ leave. Gotta keep ’em there. You need locks on the doors… It’s a little kinky but, you know… rock with me.”</p>
<p id=”par-10_18″>He added that he liked to make it as warm as possible to make people drunker and looser.</p>
<p id=”par-11_39″>“You need a lot of heat. Don’t have no air conditioning,” he said. “Heat affects the alcohol and it also affects… you know, everybody gets a little bit more comfortable and loose. It builds up a nice little sweat.”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-the-events-reportedly-had-a-strict-dress-code-for-women”>The events reportedly had a strict dress code for women</h2>
<p id=”par-12_16″>The party planner also went into detail about the alleged dress code in place for women. </p>
<p id=”par-13_38″>“No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes,” she told the <a target=”_blank” href=”https://nypost.com/2024/10/29/us-news/diddys-alleged-requirements-for-girls-at-freak-off-sex-parties/” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>New York Post</a>. “Every girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her butt cheeks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage showing.” </p>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-2″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/lawsuits-sean-diddy-combs.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Sean Diddy Combs performing on stage while wearing a black t-shirt.” class=”wp-image-3735653″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Sean Diddy Combs | Jason Koerner/Getty Images</figcaption></figure>
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<p id=”par-14_24″>There was some flexibility with the type of dress women would wear, but the planner said that every woman <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-parties-reportedly-dress-code-women-exceptions.html/”>had to be in stilettos</a>.</p>
<p id=”par-15_21″>“And every single one of them had to be wearing stilettos,” she said. “That one, there was no exception: high stilettos.”</p>
<p id=”par-16_32″><strong><em>How to get help: </em></strong><em>In the U.S., call the RAINN National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 to connect with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area.</em></p>