<p id=”par-1_70″><a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/tag/sean-diddy-combs/?swcfpc=1″>Sean “Diddy” Combs’</a> parties were massive affairs with <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/celebrity/”>celebrity</a> guests and long run times. People badly wanted to attend and were willing to follow his alleged list of rules in order to do so. A party planner who said she worked with Diddy in 2004 and 2005 claimed women had to dress a certain way in order to attend. She said there was one rule with no exceptions to it.</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-sean-diddy-combs-reportedly-expected-women-to-follow-a-dress-code-at-his-parties”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs reportedly expected women to follow a dress code at his parties</h2>
<p id=”par-2_22″>When the party planner worked with Diddy, she knew not to let in any female guests who weren’t dressed a certain way.</p>
<p id=”par-3_38″>“No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes,” she told the <a target=”_blank” href=”https://nypost.com/2024/10/29/us-news/diddys-alleged-requirements-for-girls-at-freak-off-sex-parties/” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>New York Post</a>. “Every girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her butt cheeks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage showing.” </p>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-1″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Sean-Diddy-Combs-Madonna.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs posing in a white suit at the 2022 Billboard Music Awards at MGM Grand Garden Arena.” class=”wp-image-3732377″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs | Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic</figcaption></figure>
<p id=”par-4_26″>While there was room for interpretation with some of these rules, Diddy allegedly did not want any woman at the party to wear anything but stilettos. </p>
<p id=”par-5_19″>“And every single one of them had to be wearing stilettos. That one, there was no exception: high stilettos.”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-sean-diddy-combs-allegedly-also-didn-t-want-guests-over-a-certain-weight-at-his-parties”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs allegedly also didn’t want guests over a certain weight at his parties</h2>
<p id=”par-6_42″>The party planner also claimed that there were standards for the size of the women who attended these events. They had to be thin, and she kept a scale in her car in case they felt they needed to check someone’s weight.</p>
<p id=”par-7_65″>“We would do a weigh-in, if necessary,” said the organizer, who worked with Diddy in 2004 and 2005, and asked to remain anonymous. “The girls had to be young and hot, so I always had a scale nearby in case I needed to make sure. The number was 140 pounds, but if a girl was really tall, there was a little bit of discretion involved.”</p>
<p id=”par-8_18″>She claimed that Diddy had a <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-parties-reportedly-ask-tell-policy-ages-female-attendees.html/”>very specific image</a> of the type of woman he wanted in attendance.</p>
<p id=”par-9_23″>“No flab, no cellulite. Not overly pierced or tattooed. No short hair,” she said. “And the girls had to be young and hot.”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-he-is-currently-in-jail-awaiting-trial”>He is currently in jail awaiting trial</h2>
<p id=”par-10_24″>In 2024, Diddy was arrested on charges of sex trafficking and racketeering. He is currently at the <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/sean-p-diddy-combs-jail-known-poor-living-conditions-rotten-food-power-outages.html/”>Metropolitan Detention Center</a> in Brooklyn, New York. </p>
<p id=”par-11_34″>In September, Diddy’s lawyers presented a $50 million bail proposal that would have allowed Diddy to remain in his home until his trial. A judge rejected the proposal. The defense’s appeal was also denied.</p>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-2″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/sean-diddy-combs-lawsuit.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Sean “Diddy” Combs attends Black Tie Affair For Quality Control’s CEO Pierre “Pee” Thomas in a white suit and black bowtie.” class=”wp-image-3735652″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Sean Diddy Combs | Paras Griffin/Getty Images</figcaption></figure>
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<p id=”par-12_29″>“He’s doing fine. It’s a difficult circumstance. He’s making the best of the situation,” his lawyer Anthony Ricco said, per <a target=”_blank” href=”https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/judge-rules-sean-diddy-combs-will-remain-in-jail-while-appeals-court-considers-bail-request” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>PBS</a>. “Nobody’s OK with staying in jail for now.”</p>
<p id=”par-13_8″>Diddy’s trial will begin on May 5, 2025.</p>