<p id=”par-1_40″>Allegations about <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/tag/sean-diddy-combs/?swcfpc=1″>Sean “Diddy” Combs’</a> parties continue to surface. Combs’ former assistant, Phil Pines, said he had to help organize the events as part of his job. He recalled what Combs wanted to have available at these <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-parties-wall-wall-debauchery-said-party-planner.html/”>lengthy, debaucherous affairs</a>. </p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-sean-diddy-combs-assistant-shared-what-he-wanted-for-his-parties”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ assistant shared what he wanted for his parties</h2>
<p id=”par-2_24″>According to Pines, who worked for Combs between 2019 and 2021, Combs asked him to <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-spent-500000-mirrors-freak-off-party-insider-reveals.html/”>obtain a number of items</a> ahead of his parties. </p>
<p id=”par-3_62″>“We usually had a laundry list of items that included lights, alcohol, marijuana, ketamine, Molly,” Pines said in the docu-series <em>The Fall of Diddy</em> (via <a target=”_blank” href=”https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/diddy-assistant-wild-king-nights-parties-fall-of-diddy-doc-1236120524/” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>The Hollywood Reporter</a>). “You have mushrooms on the top there … baby oil and astroglide [lubricant] are very important; candles, incense, Apple TVs, electronics, computers, iPads. Obviously there was, you know, male libido supplements, stuff like that.”</p>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-1″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Filmmaker-Sean-DiddY-Combs.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs attends the 2022 Billboard Music Awards at MGM Grand Garden Arena while wearing a white suit and dark sunglasses.” class=”wp-image-3764387″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs | Mindy Small/FilmMagic</figcaption></figure>
<p id=”par-4_37″>Per <a target=”_blank” href=”https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-features/sean-diddy-combs-love-era-trial-cassie-1235249176/” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>Rolling Stone</a>, Pines also managed Combs’ sex toys, including a device called the “power banger sex machine.” Part of his job involved helping with the clean-up of these lengthy “sexual escapades,” which he described as “demoralizing.”</p>
<p id=”par-5_37″>“You could slip because <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/50-cent-posts-jab-diddy-indictment.html/”>there was baby oil</a> all over the floor,” he said. “When I would go into these rooms, it’s like no one had any consciousness of what took place, meaning that everything was everywhere.”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-sean-diddy-combs-assistant-once-said-the-power-dynamic-was-unbalanced-at-these-parties”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ assistant once said the power dynamic was unbalanced at these parties</h2>
<p id=”par-6_35″>While Pines said he was not present for Combs’ freak offs, he was familiar with <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/diddy-employee-describes-wild-king-night-parties-in-new-lawsuit.html/”>his Wild King Nights</a>. These parties took place in hotel rooms, and the guest list allegedly included many young women.</p>
<p id=”par-7_33″>“A lot of times, there were girls that were under the radar, didn’t have a lot of influence,” Pines said. “I think that speaks to the type of situations people were put in.”</p>
<p id=”par-8_8″>Pines believed the uneven power dynamic was intentional.</p>
<p id=”par-9_50″>“A lot of times, you have [Combs] with a young female, and there’s a power dynamic there,” he said. “A more impressionable girl is easier to reel in, as opposed to somebody who might be a celebrity who’s not going to do too much of that, or give some pushback.”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-he-reportedly-never-wanted-to-be-alone”>He reportedly never wanted to be alone</h2>
<p id=”par-10_18″>Pines said Combs was almost always <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-asked-kim-porter-thought-god-meant-men-just-have-1-wife.html/”>accompanied by a woman</a>. He believed his former boss needed constant reassurance.</p>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-2″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Sean-Diddy-Combs-parties-1.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs dressed in white in 2007″ class=”wp-image-3757963″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs | Bryan Bedder/CP/Getty Images for CP</figcaption></figure>
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<p id=”par-11_88″>“My observation was that a woman made him feel like a man. And always having somebody around [made him] feel like that. That was kind of his insecurity, in my experience,” Pines said. “I never saw him sleep alone…. In two years, I think it was maybe seven to eight times when he would sleep by himself, and I started to kind of put it together that there was something wrong. Like, he needed somebody with him to make him feel comfort. And it was always a guest.”</p>
<p id=”par-12_9″>Combs is currently in a Brooklyn jail awaiting trial.</p>
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