<p id=”par-1_68″><a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/tag/ben-affleck/?swcfpc=1″>Ben Affleck</a> and <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/tag/jennifer-lopez/?swcfpc=1″>Jennifer Lopez</a> are one of Hollywood’s hottest couples. Unfortunately, they appear to be <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-already-signed-divorce-papers-attorney-says.html/”>headed for divorce after two years of marriage</a>. The couple has fundamental differences, as Lopez loves interacting with the public and her fans, while Affleck prefers a quiet life away from the media frenzy. Here’s what a source said about Affleck finding Lopez’s recent outings “cringey and contrived” as divorce speculation looms.</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-ben-affleck-allegedly-finds-jennifer-lopez-s-current-time-in-the-spotlight-cringey-and-contrived”>Ben Affleck allegedly finds Jennifer Lopez’s current time in the spotlight ‘cringey and contrived’</h2>
<p id=”par-2_43″>Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez have fundamental differences that make their marriage challenging. Lopez loves living in public and never shies away from media attention. However, fans love to make fun of her husband for his hatred of the media and paparazzi. </p>
<p id=”par-3_82″>Lopez and Affleck spent their summers on opposite coasts. While Affleck spent his time in LA, Lopez spent time in the Hamptons in New York and Europe. She showed off <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-posts-thirst-trap-footage-55th-birthday-party-ben-affleck.html/”>her extravagant <em>Bridgerton</em>-themed birthday party</a> on Instagram and posted bikini photos to flaunt her fit future. Affleck didn’t attend his wife’s birthday party, and neither acknowledged their wedding anniversary on social media. A source told <a href=”https://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/jennifer-lopez-desperate-to-prove-something-to-ben-affleck/” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>In Touch Weekly</a> that Affleck doesn’t like how Lopez presents her current lifestyle to the world. </p>
<p id=”par-4_66″>“Of course Ben is well aware that J. Lo’s been staging photo ops all around the Hamptons to try and look like she hasn’t got a care in the world,” the source explained. “But he knows otherwise, because when they talk, she shows a much different side, so all this phoniness is just making him relieved he doesn’t have to live in her made-up world anymore.” </p>
<p id=”par-5_46″>The insider added that Lopez would need to “tone it way down” to win Affleck back, “but of course, she’s doing the opposite, and he finds it totally cringey and contrived.” Lopez’s image is “proving to Ben that he made the right choice in pulling the plug.” </p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-ben-affleck-recently-discussed-how-he-hates-public-attention”>Ben Affleck recently discussed how he hates public attention</h2>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-1″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Jennifer-Lopez-Ben-Affleck-1-9.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Jennifer Lopez in a green plaid coat walking hand in hand with Ben Affleck in a gray blazer in New York City” class=”wp-image-3691766″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in September 2021 | Gotham/Wireimage</figcaption></figure>
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<p id=”par-6_50″>Ben Affleck hates excess media attention — an opinion he had in common with his ex-wife, Jennifer Garner. Unfortunately, Jennifer Lopez doesn’t seem to mind the craze surrounding her. Affleck spoke on Kevin Hart’s Peacock show, <em><a href=”https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCsQHuMS6NowlMWZX1tBtV5I_F6kAqaAL” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>Hart to Heart</a></em>, about what it’s like going anywhere with his famous wife. </p>
<p id=”par-7_54″>“We went somewhere with [Jennifer] — I can’t remember because she’s so famous, and she creates this — people love her, and she really represents something important to people,” Affleck said. “[To me,] people are like, ‘Hey, I like your movie,’ and then they’re like ‘Ah! J.Lo!’ It’s amazing, you know what I mean?”</p>
<p id=”par-8_26″>Affleck recalled when he and Lopez had to walk a block and a half through Times Square. He called the crowds and the fans “f***ing bananas.”</p>
<p id=”par-9_40″>“I don’t like a lot of attention,” he added. “This is why people see me, and they’re like, ‘Why is this dude always mad?’ Because someone had their camera sticking in my face, and I’m like, ‘OK, here we go.’”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-the-estranged-couple-reportedly-hasn-t-seen-or-spoken-to-each-other-in-weeks”>The estranged couple reportedly hasn’t seen or spoken to each other in weeks </h2>
<p id=”par-10_53″>Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez might not be on speaking terms. While <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-will-go-move-new-york-ben-affleck-divorce-source-says.html/”>Lopez reportedly returned to the West Coast</a> for the first time in weeks or months, it wasn’t to reunite with her estranged husband. Additionally, Affleck bought a $20 million mansion of his own while Lopez spent her birthday in the Hamptons.</p>
<p id=”par-11_39″>A source told <a href=”https://www.tmz.com/2024/08/05/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-not-talking-divorce-moving-slowly/” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>TMZ</a> that Affleck and Lopez’s lack of communication is <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/ben-affleck-not-pulled-divorce-trigger-jennifer-lopez-yet.html/”>slowing their divorce proceedings</a>. Additional sources said that the couple did not hire lawyers and are using their business managers to help figure out the financials. </p>
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