With more people looking to unplug from the digital world, analog activities dubbed “grandma hobbies” are making a comeback. They are especially popular among young people looking for a way to slow down. Crafting has been known to help with mental health issues such as depression or anxiety too. Here’s how to get your granny on.
Start with a gateway hobby
The list of so-called grandma hobbies is long, with some being more complicated than others. There is no need to start an advanced project immediately, and the right task could keep you more engaged in the long run. Many people “jump straight into punch needling or crochet and are put off when they don’t get it right,” Andie Reeves, a writer and fiber artist, said to Verywell Mind. Try a more accessible endeavor, such as “cross-stitch, coloring books or simple beading kits.”
Match your “activity levels to the hobby that you choose,” Susan Albers, psychologist at Cleveland Clinic, said. If you are tired, ”choose an activity that has slow, repetitive movements, such as crocheting or knitting.” If you are feeling more alert, “a brain puzzle, or putting together a puzzle, can help to tap into your focus and concentration.”
Let go of perfectionism
Grandma hobbies are therapeutic because they allow us to make mistakes and to focus on the joy of creating. Amid the pressure to “constantly hustle and be productive,” grandma hobbies offer a “refreshing, pressure-free way to achieve fulfillment and well-being,” said Forbes. They remind you that “time spent doing something slow, quiet and meaningful is not wasted; rather, it is restorative.” It’s a way of “choosing presence over pressure and imagination over efficiency.”
Embrace taking a break from the digital world
It is hard to “doomscroll while embroidering,” said Verywell Mind. Crafts offer an “immersive experience that pulls us out of the (often addictive) digital world.” Picking up a “crochet hook, a paint brush or a recipe for bread reconnects you with simple, sensory pleasures,” Emily Sharp, an art therapist, said to Verywell Mind. While you’re “using your hands and letting your mind wander,” you are “getting in touch with a part of yourself beyond the phone screen.” That’s a practice “we should all actively nurture.”
Take your time
The most valuable aspect of incorporating grandma hobbies into your life “lies in embracing the freedom of slowing down and savoring the process,” said Forbes. When you set aside time for mindful activities, you “reconnect with a softer pace of life.” To make this a consistent part of your routine, “start by dedicating small, nonnegotiable time slots each week for your chosen hobby.” Remember not to do them for “social media, for likes or for others’ approval.” The magic lies in indulging in these activities “purely for your own satisfaction, without any expectation of a perfect outcome.”
Don’t forget community
You can obviously do these hobbies alone, but there is a lot to be gained from doing them with other like-minded people. If possible, “learn from someone who already does it,” Shelly Dar, a mental health and well-being specialist, said to The Good Trade. “Ask your grandmother, your neighbor, someone at a community garden.” These hobbies were “always meant to be passed hand to hand, and that exchange is part of the healing.”
Engaging with other hobbyists “fosters a sense of connection based on shared interests,” which is “especially valuable in today’s technology-driven world that often leaves people feeling isolated,” Patricia Dixon, a licensed clinical psychologist, said to Good Housekeeping. It can motivate you to “improve and deepen your skills, creating an environment of mutual growth.”