<p id=”par-1_69″><a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/tag/jennifer-lopez/?swcfpc=1″>Jennifer Lopez</a> and <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/tag/ben-affleck/?swcfpc=1″>Ben Affleck</a> continue to work through <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-knows-written-said-amid-ben-affleck-divorce.html/”>their divorce as 2024 ends</a>. The couple tied the knot in 2022, and Jennifer served Ben with divorce papers in August 2024. According to insiders, Jennifer is leaning heavily on her sisters, Lynda and Leslie Lopez, and her mother, Guadalupe Rodríguez. Here’s what a source said about her sisters and mom spending daily time with her since Ben moved out.</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-jennifer-lopez-s-sisters-and-mother-have-heavily-stepped-in-ever-since-ben-affleck-moved-out”>Jennifer Lopez’s sisters and mother have heavily stepped in ever since Ben Affleck moved out</h2>
<p id=”par-2_71″>Jennifer Lopez served Ben Affleck divorce papers in August 2024, but split rumors started long before. By mid-2024, Bennifer fans speculated that the couple’s marriage was on the rocks. In June 2024, Ben reportedly moved out of the Beverly Hills mansion he shared with Jennifer. He moved into a Brentwood rental home while Jennifer spent ample time in the Hamptons. As of December 2024, the Beverly Hills home remains for sale.</p>
<p id=”par-3_27″>A source told <a href=”https://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/j-los-mom-and-sisters-total-rocks-for-her-throughout-divorce-excl/” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>In Touch Weekly</a> that Jennifer has been leaning on her sisters, Lynda and Leslie Lopez. She also relies on her mom, Guadalupe Rodríguez. </p>
<p id=”par-4_52″>“Both of her sisters have been total rocks for her,” the insider explained. “She can call them any time day or night, and they spend hours on the phone with her every week just letting her vent and reminding her that things will be OK, that she’s loved and never alone.” </p>
<p id=”par-5_43″>According to the insider, Jennifer’s sister and mom “flew into action” when Ben left “and made a schedule with her manager.” For “several months,” Jennifer was able to have a sister, her mom, or her dad step in and stay with her. </p>
<p id=”par-6_59″>The source added that Jennifer “knows she is emotionally needy.” And she is extremely “grateful” for the time her family gives her. “She tries not to overdo it, because they both have very busy lives of their own, but it’s obviously been crisis time, so she has needed them a lot more, and her mom too,” they added. </p>
<p id=”par-7_38″>“Now that time has gone by they have gone back to their own lives, but they call her every single day, without fail, multiple times,” the source revealed. “Jen defers to their advice as though they’re her therapists.”</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-jennifer-lopez-s-mom-allegedly-told-j-lo-to-cut-her-losses-with-ben-affleck”>Jennifer Lopez’s mom allegedly told J.Lo to ‘cut’ her ‘losses’ with Ben Affleck</h2>
<figure class=”wp-block-image size-full” id=”emb-1″><img decoding=”async” src=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Jennifer-Lopez-Ben-Affleck-1.webp?strip=all&quality=80″ alt=”Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck walking hand in hand in New York City and laughing. Lopez is wearing a green plaid jacket and a green outfit underneath. Affleck is wearing a gray jacket.” class=”wp-image-3751160″><figcaption class=”wp-element-caption”>Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck on Sept. 25, 2021, in New York City | Gotham/Wireimage</figcaption></figure>
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<p id=”par-8_24″>Jennifer Lopez’s mom, <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopezs-mom-predicted-reunite-ben-affleck-live-happily-ever.html/”>Guadalupe Rodríguez, adored Ben Affleck</a>. However, when the marriage went south, she allegedly <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopezs-mom-thinks-ben-affleck-threw-towel-marriage-source-says.html/”>encouraged her daughter to move forward without him</a>.</p>
<p id=”par-9_77″>“Jennifer’s mom told her, ‘Cut your losses and move on to avoid getting any deeper in this mess,’” an insider told <a href=”https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13596959/jennifer-lopez-mom-warning-ben-affleck-marriage.html” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>DailyMail.com</a>. “She told her that she’s wasted years believing that Ben was some kind of knight in shining armor. He was not the person she built him up to be. It’s taken too much of a toll on her and because of this, she has lost sight of who she is and what she stands for.”</p>
<p id=”par-10_10″>The source added that Jennifer’s sisters agree with their mom.</p>
<p id=”par-11_44″>“It’s upsetting to her family and Jennifer that Ben cannot see there is a woman who is loved by millions that will love him eternally — but he would rather throw in the towel than actually just try to fix things,” the insider continued.</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-j-lo-s-sister-lynda-lopez-remains-close-with-violet-affleck-which-allegedly-confused-violet-s-parents”>J.Lo’s sister, Lynda Lopez, remains close with Violet Affleck, which allegedly confused Violet’s parents</h2>
<p id=”par-12_45″>Jennifer Lopez’s family has seen the toll her marriage to Ben Affleck has taken on her. However, Jennifer’s sister, <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/ben-affleck-jennifer-garner-confused-daughter-violet-wants-keep-jennifer-lopez-close-source-says.html/”>Lynda Lopez, remains close with Ben’s daughter</a>, Violet Affleck. In November 2024, Lynda visited Violet at Yale and snapped a photo together, which they posted online.</p>
<p id=”par-13_46″>An insider told <a href=”https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14043723/ben-affleck-jennifer-garner-violet-lopez-sister-lynda-confused.html” target=”_blank” rel=”noreferrer noopener”>DailyMail.com</a> that Violet arranged the visit with Lynda. “Violet has a strong attachment to J.Lo and her family,” the insider explained. “It’s quite confusing to Ben and Jen [Garner] because they do not understand why Violet is so adamant on keeping her close.”</p>
<p id=”par-14_34″>Jennifer adored all of Ben’s kids but appeared to have a special relationship with Violet. The source added that Violet “looks up to J.Lo and Lynda and is intent on keeping the bond alive.”</p>
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